EXPECTATIONS HURT

We all have various experiences in our lives.We are subjected through downfalls,rises,happy moments,sad agonies....life has what not to present us??????we go through different stages in our life and each stage has something to teach us..each experience has a lesson which is to be learned by us..but one thing which should be taken care of in every stage of life is that we should not expect anything,,,we start our lives as a chromosome and even before developing people start expecting from us,there are discussions going on for our gender,our complexion,and what not,,obviously when the child is born all those expectations are not fulfilled..basically i want to say that the very beginning of our life is with expectations and when these expectations are not fulfilled people start blaming various factors which according to me is COMPLETELY NUISANCE,,
Now lets get into childhood,as an infant people expect what not from that little infant,,people start asking the parents "why is'nt ur child walking still",some say"he did'nt start talking yet"i mean what the hell is this?he is a little infant,,ok showing concern is good but everything has a limit..
now as the child grows the people want him to top..whatever he studies they want him to excel in that,,i am not saying that one should not study,yes education is essential and should be given prime importance but many a times a lot of potentialities of the child in various other aspects are completely neglected..
This was all about others expectations which can shatter ones dreams but the the most amazing fact is that those expectations that shatter you the most are of your own,,,,,,,,once we are in aposition to take our own desicions we expect a lot from ourselves and our near and dear one's....we want everything the way we would like it to be,,,,,,,but the ONE ABOVE has a completely different plan for us,always when we donot get what we want we become angry or we lose our hope,,and either of them is enough for our failure.We also start expecting from our friends and parents and when they do not give us what we want(ACTUALLY DEMAND)we feel that they do not love us anymore but all of us should realize that they can never be unfair with us they are OUR OWN PEOPLE at times there are certain circumstances and at times the opinions do vary so we should respect their opinions cos they are the people who were there with us when we needed them the most and will alwys be..i would like to conclude by saying
CONCENTRATE ON YOUR KARMA(DEEDS)AND NOT ON THE FRUITS OF YOUR KARMA