EMOTIONS

               Once upon a time,long long ago,it all started with.......all these beginnings may be very commonly used by all of us to describe something,to narrate something,to cherish a memory!But all these memories aren't really planned.Hardly do we remember how something which is now so close and dear to us,is an integral part of our lives..actually entered our lives!We have friends,buddies,some people who are connected in a very strange strong bond..but we actually must have never thought initially that these people who were once strangers will become so close to us,mean so much to us..bring in such a pleasure by just being around and make this world such a beautiful place..but the time does not stay same...its the most tricky thing which keeps playing with us,testing us...we fight,we quarrel,we dispute,we disagree,we get upset,we get hurt...and situations turn the other way round,after all change is the only constant thing!All of this gives birth to emotions like irritation,stress,anxiety..which are very natural..being humans we are bound to have them,feel them..but what we need to think upon is that these emotions arise due to our short term WANTS!We want things to be in our favor,we want circumstances to be smooth and easy..and even if these short term wants are fulfilled we as humans want more and more thereby developing another emotion called "GREED",ultimately we complicate ourselves further and end up staying unsatisfied always.....
            So whats the solution to our problems?emotions can't be controlled..we cannot cease to feel...yes emotions cannot be controlled but they can definitely be channelized in the correct direction..We live in a dual world;where we have black but there exists white as well,we have night but the sun rises as well..light is actually the absence of darkness so without darkness  importance of light cannot be realized.The positive always wins over the negative..if we tend to develop negative emotions like anger and hatred the only way out to get rid of these negatives is by replacing them with a single positive emotion called "LOVE"..love has the power to melt the hardest rock,to bear fruits out of the most unyielding field...love is something which we do not want but we badly "NEED"!all of us are hungry for love and are looking for only love...love is boundless,condition-less,timeless...to love and to be loved is the strongest emotion of all that can out-power all other negatives...
              Love your life,love your job,love yourself,love the people around you,love the people with you...live in the present moment and love the present moment because you are about to lose this moment soon....

SMILE :) :)

    Smile , this may seem to be one particular action almost every normal person performs....in the whole day we smile....we smile when we meet people we know...when we get what we want,when we forgive , when we thank . But how many times does this smile actually reaches our eyes ?? how many times do we actually portray an effortless smiling face!!!All of us have suffered and are suffering through our share of downfalls...pains ,pressures and many a times disappointments .We are humans , we feel.....we feel sad , we feel bad , dejected and all of it is quiet natural...Every coin has two sides so if we can feel happy we are bound to feel sad as well . No matter how far we go..we aim to achieve even greater , we develop an unsatisfactory attitude which in the current competitive scenario is quiet justified!!we have good relations , some very special people , best of friends...people who just strike the right chord , people who make it easy for us to deal with the pains and pressures of our life..people who love us , care for us , value us and are valued by us..but at the same time we also come across certain people who may have given us some really bad memories , people who may left scars behind . Life is full of surprises!!some of which may be truly mesmerizing while the rest may not be so pleasant and cherishable...all these occurances take  place in a continuous flow ...emotions keep coming...people enter , people leave !! some give us peasant memories other leave us with some very sensible lessons ...we fall , we cripple but then finally we gather the courage to run...to turn our dreams into reality ... our achievements may or may not turn to be as expected but at the end of the day we do attain a certain level of stability and symbolize growth...situations may not be in our favor , people may not be in our support but ultimately we evolve ...and to evolve it requires great strength....this strength comes from one simple action SMILE :) :) :) Avery simple , genuine smile ....a smile which thanks , a smile which forgives , a smile which is grateful , a smile that indicates strength and is at the same time a symbol of tenderheartedness.......a smile that comes from within..A SMILE THAT REACHES OUR EYES !!:):)