THE ULTIMATE STRENGTH

All of us have certain dreams , certain aspirations , certain wishes and definitely certain demands...we work hard to achieve all that we desire , to enjoy what we crave for...to dream is good and working hard towards its realization is what should be our purpose ! But to chase our dreams so badly , to get indulged into something , to go after something to an extent that we become unable to observe where our mind is leading our soul to is "BAD"
There is an ANGEL and a DEVIL residing within all of us..both the angel and devil wants our dream to be realized , both of them ceaselessly want us to work towards it turning into reality but the path chosen by them is different !!as an instance both the terrorist and a laborer may wish to see his family happy , both may want to look after the adequacy of their meager needs but the way they choose to fulfill these needs is completely different..we may not touch the extremes and end up being the terrorist in our lives but even our little dishonest actions may lead to the awakening of devil in us !! This devil is responsible for an unhealthy , unstable and restless state of our minds....this state of mind is subject to stress , frustration and despair..full of negativity and hopelessness...this state of mind weakens us , shakes us , pulls us down !! The ever increasing impatience , anxiety and hyper activeness prevalent in today's era may compel us to take incorrect decisions..the circumstances may constantly act as a catalyst to awaken the devil in us , time may make us helpless and provoke the devil to come into action , but that's exactly when we are being tested..that's when we come to know how much of strength do we posses!!An honest soul has a reservoir of positivity in him..He is free of impure and insane thoughts...he has the faith that no matter how hard life gets for him , he will be able to face it , his efforts won't go vain and his struggle will transform him into a better , improved , evolved , polished person !This faith and optimism is his ULTIMATE STRENGTH !! strength which makes him withstand all the calamities , strength to survive through all the hardships , strength to face tremendous amount of pain courageously , strength to fight with the evil fearlessly , strength that helps him choose the right path , strength that allows him to realize his dreams , STRENGTH THAT KEEPS THE ANGEL ALIVE !!!

ETERNAL HAPPINESS

We live a life full of aspirations..we have enormous number of dreams..we crave , we need , we desire , we demand...Finally we end up getting things which we deserve , things which were destined which were meant to be ours eventually stay ours and things which were not , do not come our way..During this phase what we greedy and highly unsatisfied creatures do is simply mourn for things that didn't turn the way we wished them to...We suddenly become so insecure , so ignorant and so immature that we do not remain in a state to accept the fact , the reality that somethings cannot be ours!!At that moment we feel , we behave like a defeated warrior ..negativity starts buzzing in our minds!!We feel dejected , under estimated due to the fact that we had somehow consciously or unconsciously defined our frame of happiness and the reality that we could not achieve the same saddens us badly...all this turns out to be so complicated that we experience a feeling of being lost amidst the chaos...the fast pace of occurrence of the events  aggravates our misery...and we ourselves are responsible for this poor condition of ours..its our own attitude , our thinking ,our definition of happiness that determines our quality of living...ill situations , bad circumstances , tough times all these are mere excuses..everyone is supposed to go through his own set of problems and deal with his own set of sufferings...but at the same time everyone is also blessed with the incredible strength to face the circumstances , deal with the situation and solve the problems..this strength not only gives us the zeal to keep trying but also helps us accept the fact that certain things may not turn out to be the way we want them to..certain things are out of our reach and control..one of the greatest source of this strength is the people we live with..the people who complete us..the people who make us special.OUR FRIENDS , FAMILY , OUR WELL WISHERS , THE VERY FEW NEAR AND DEAR ONE'S..THE ANGELS , THE SAVIORS OF OUR LIFE...take a pause!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!halt..............look around you and see how beautiful your life is due to the presence of these angels..how much difference does their mere existence makes to us..how a simple word of encouragement , a small love you text from them elevates our mood..how good we feel when they call us their own..and now analyze what is worth mourning for the things , the sadness that was never ours or embracing the happiness which was always yours and which will stay ours...:):):)

MISUNDERSTANDINGS WILL EXIST

In our whole lifetime we go through a number of stages..we fall into a number of relationships either willingly or unwillingly..some of which may turn to be very fruitful and fun filled while the rest may simply prove to be a source of unwanted despair!!But what matters is not which relationship brings happiness or what makes us sad..the bottom line,the prime requisite in any sort of relationships is TRUST!!trust is all that's essential for any kind of relationship to be successful.It provides strength and gives a definition,a new dimension to the relationship..and this 5 letter word is not so easy to develop..it requires honesty and a feeling of complete dependency on the other person involved..If trust is the base of any relationship then it is bound to withstand all the adversities..no matter how much the people differ in their thoughts,opinions,values and even societies..every relationship is subject to a number of tests and each individual has a life full of twists and turns..time is never the same..things keep changing and so does our thinking!!there are circumstances wherein we develop a feeling of hatred,a feeling of being neglected and anger and dejection are strong feelings which cannot be ignored...we love and want to be loved but things always don't be in our favor...we all have a tendency of expecting,introspecting which are persistent!! our mind is best at playing traits...it may think devastatingly..but at the same time we also posses a level of maturity a sense of discrimination which generates co operation , mutual understanding and compromising attitude..time will change..misunderstandings will exist but if we do not allow our minds to play the devil and rather believe in positive consequences instead of disregarding then relationships will be better than they were before and definitely will be everlasting...

What differentiates you is "YOU"

We live in an era where the society seems to play a very impact able role in our lives,where before taking any decision , before performing any task we are bound to take the reaction and opinion of the society into consideration!!hardly are we able to live our lives our own ways...we have all lost our control over ourselves simply because we have given others the authority to rule our minds!!we have become so carried away and so reactive that our own thoughts have disappeared somewhere , our own identities have become camouflaged...the voices of others have become so loud that we are in no position to listen to our hearts... all this has become so intense that we have ended up being one amongst the crowd!!influenced,weak and carried away....but is this what we want!!is this what we are meant to be??is dis our purpose??what gives us our identity  then?what gives our personality an edge over others??its the ability to raise our own opinions , channelize our own thoughts , follow our own dreams that helps us stand out from the crowd...we are what we want us to be..the considerations of ''the society'' should not be given so much importance that our hearts and minds take a back seat..when we do what we really wish to do , when we strive to fulfill , to achieve our desires , when we follow what our heart says only then we are ourselves..in the rest of the cases someone else seems to fit in our place..what makes us different is the strong will to create our own standards , the firmness in our own principles , the discipline in our own rules and the determination in our own possibilities.......                                                                                                                                                
What differentiates you is "YOU"

Its all about the vibes we generate......

Having come across so many people in my life , understanding the lifestyles and attitudes of all the various kinds of people..I have realized one big fact...i have learned that "no one is bad at heart"..no one is actually evil..its only the circumstances which the people face,the kind of situations they are subject to, the surroundings they live which causes them to act or react ; which may or may not seem to b right to us.There is no such thing of a good and bad person.. in fact what divides the people into the so called sects of "good and bad"are the vibes they generate...the congeniality,the optimism,the honesty,the positivism that they reflect ...such people are always liked by all simply because they make the people feel good,light and portray a sense of genuineness..but that should not let us derive the conclusion that a person who is not so friendly and positive about things is a "bad" person..he may be equally honest and righteous..but because of the vibes he generates people create a mindset about him..an inappropriate image of his!!If we take things in a happy go lucky manner,believe in possibilities,channelize our actions then things will automatically work in our favor..we need not put in any efforts for anything nor is there any need to think and perceive about people's attitudes or the roles we are playing in our respective lives..all we need to take care of are our KARMAS!!we need to simply be ourselves,care and help others,believe in sharing and being kind to others as well as to ourselves and that will do wonders!!helping one another,supporting one another,respecting one another brings real happiness and true contentment..

P.S : KEEP SMILING ALWAYS :)