LOVE YOUR PAIN

Pain is always considered to be a very negative concept..all us us believe in spending a life that is free of pain..all of us believe that pain is something that weakens us,shakes us,lowers us..BUT IS THAT THE TRUTH??is it pain that is responsible for weakening us??is it pain that shakes us or is it our lack of confidence in ourselves..our attitude of limiting ourselves that shakes us??does it lower us or does it give us a chance to go much higher,much beyond,much ahead and far of our vision of  possibilities..the truth is that pain makes us realize the importance of pleasure..it gives us an opportunity to look forward to things,helps us to create new definition of our dreams and creates within us an even stronger desire to full fill them..it brings in us a reservoir of strength,zeal,gusto,enthusiasm,motivation..it makes us more passionate and needful towards achieving our desires..it helps realize our barriers and gives us the essential power to break them and be back with a bang!!!just imagine your life without the pains..we keep complaining of our hectic schedules..of the deadlines but just imagine if you didn't had a hectic Monday to Saturday schedule would you ever be able to enjoy the Sunday?????what would be the difference in weekdays and weekends then!!what if you never quarreled with your loved ones??will you ever be able to realize what they mean in your life and that you are absolutely incomplete without them??everything would be so so monotonous..FAILURES ARE THE PILLARS TO SUCCESS and that's  not a mere proverb it actually has a very deep meaning...unless you do not go through your share of downfalls,your share of  bad experiences you can never experience success...success will never seem as beautiful to you as it seems after facing the failure..if you were always certain that you will achieve something then achieving the same will give you no pleasure!!whats the use of such an achievement then??so we should not concentrate on how remove the pain from our lives but on how to make the most of it by facing it courageously..our attitude,our approach towards everything decides the quality of the life we lead and we are responsible for nurturing our belief system...SO THE NEXT TIME YOU ARE IN PAIN YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO......:):)

TOLERANCE.........The quality we lack!!

All of us must have gone through 1 situation in our lives that we feel we just cant handle , a situation which makes us question our existence , a situation wherein we feel depressed , dejected , LOST...at such times everything seems dry , colorless..every positive thought , every joyous moment seems to be vanished...WE WISH WE WERE NOT ALIVE...but bang on!!!how can we think that??how can we keep our minds preoccupied with negativity and let struggles take a toll on our lives??are we so weak!!!During those situations we become so hopeless that we actually consider ourselves to be weak............ but MIND WELL.. NO ONE IS WEAK...EVERY ONE IS STRONG EVERYONE IS BRAVE....the only thing that makes us weak is our lack of tolerance..Tough situations are a part of our lives..every day we are gifted with a new set of troubles..a new struggle commences everyday so if we keep reacting instead of patiently tolerating we will ourselves devastate our lives..we are impatient and lack the faith not only upon ourselves but also upon THE ALMIGHTY..this makes us lose everything..THINK just for a sec , just sit quietly go back to the ill situations in your life and replace intolerance with tolerance , anger with patience , hopelessness with hope and imagine what would have been the consequences then..i bet they must be much clear , better , then what actually occurred..We cry , we hate , we curse , we blame!!!but just think why do we cry when we can laugh??why do we hate when we can love??why do we curse when we can bless and be blessed??why??because WE LACK TOLERANCE...the tolerance to face tough times in our lives,the tolerance to bear the ups and downs of our lives,the tolerance to listen to the critics,the tolerance to survive with the laws of the nature,,the tolerance to wait for improvement to take place and most importantly the tolerance , the patience , the ability to digest the fact that "SWEET IS THY WILL" HE THE ALMIGHTY can never harm us , weaken us..His grace will always strengthen us..But we are ignorant and lack faith upon HIS GRACE..HE has gifted us with this life and its our prime responsibility to face the challenges of our life with full courage and dignity..NOTHING is in our hands , HE is the creator , the generator , the destroyer ,, so we have to accept everything as we are left with no other option...whatever we perceive , whatever we believe are temporary and out of our control , we are all controlled , directed and guided by HIM..so come lets forget all our sorrows , lets leave all our grievances behind , lets forgive ,lets accept ,LETS TOLERATE...

LOVE........

We have heard a lot about it , we read a lot about it in stories,in movies,but what is LOVE??where is love?where can we find love or more precisely how do we search for it?first of all love isn't a commodity which can be searched or purchased.It is one beautiful feeling that can only be felt and the one who has felt that..experienced that finds love everywhere..The person who knows to love finds love in everything around him.He loves the circumstances around him,the people around him, the climate,the surroundings,everything just because he knows to love..he knows the importance of love,the necessity of love,he is aware of the pain in the absence of love,in the ignorance of love..so he cannot afford not to be in love.......in love with anything and everything around him......

Have you ever wondered why do we find some people nagging and cribbing about their circumstances,their situations all the the time...and on the contrary others cherishing and adoring their circumstances,their surroundings,their people??how are they happy?most of us would feel that they are happy because they have got what they want and that's what making them cherish the same..but remember one thing no one gets what he wants if someones happy with what he has its either because he has achieved what he wanted or he has the courage to gracefully accept what came his way...and this is something the people who nag and crib do not understand because their minds are preoccupied with their complaints..the only difference between the previous and latter people is that the latter know how to love,to express their love..and the others do not...ask ,in which category do we fall??

During the whole day how many times do we shout,how many times do we blame others, our fate,but what does that lead to??hatred,displeasure,anger,nothing else..there may be little incidents occurring the whole day,we do not even think about them ever but our reactions to them do affect us..like shouting on mum for salty food, scolding your siblings for breaking something we cherished,getting irritated because of ill weather and so on..now just modify your reactions just think one day even if the food prepared is not tasty but instead of complaining about it if we complement our mum for the ever delicious food she cooks how happy she would feel..one day if you do not scold our siblings for breaking your things and make them realize that their silly fights mean a lot to us how light we would feel.....one day instead of being irritated by the rainy weather if we simply go out and just enjoy and feel the rain drops how elevated our mood becomes??

ONCE..........................................................................................................................................

JUST ONCE LOVE ONCE AND IT WILL BECOME YOUR HABIT FOREVER....LOVE IS A WONDERFUL ADDICTION JUST TRY TO GET ADDICTED TO IT...

EXPLORE URSELF !!!!!

We fall , we rise, we feel sad, and then we become happy.There are things we hate , there are things we love.We experience moments that can be cherished always and then we face situations that we wish get over as early as possible . But at the end what matters??Whats our necessity??What do we desire??the answer to all these questions is one simple word HAPPINESS!!! We wish to achieve great heights , we expect appreciation , we need love , but for what?just because we wish to seek happiness..so what do we require to do to achieve happiness??most of the times we just expect things to occur , we just want situations to turn into our favor , we dream and dream and then reality strikes hard upon us.Things go just the reverse , situations turn completely out of our favor , but then what do we do??Everyone will ask us to be patient , to be courageous..but at those weak moments do we actually have the courage to be still more courageous?We during those moments are so restless can we expect ourselves to be patient?? Then,,,,,.....what do we do?? We just cannot afford to sit and simply blame our fate??We need to come into action , such an action that will take us to the path that leads to long term happiness..we need to go ahead , think beyond ,we need to challenge our possibilities , enhance our capabilities and improve our potentialities..many times we face situations in our lives wherein we feel we are stuck up and we cannot do anything and so we remain stuck up..we do not even make smallest of efforts to come out..and that's because we have created pictures of us , of the people around us,,of everything and that's what not letting us come out.We need to listen , to understand ,to bear , to share ,to interact,to know and let others know , to experience ,TO EXPLORE.......We may never know our limits unless we try to overcome them.Its well said that a good decision comes through experience and experience comes through bad decision.But we should at least be in a position to take a decision.We should speak up , communicate especially with those whom we hate may be by knowing them we find a reason to hate them less.We never lose anything but there are chances we can gain,so why not give it a try??stay hungry,stay foolish,go different,think beyond and that's what will help you to change the fantasies into realities.Be a good listener,listen as much as you can as that will help you know more, learn more,,remember every little thing on this universe has something to teach us..find those things,search for them and then inculcate them..learn n learn,act , never let yourself to be lulled into inaction,Develop the desire, the thirst,the passion,and at the end what  u will achieve is that simple word HAPPINESS... 

VIVEK

Life is all about experiencing different experiences , its all about winning , losing ,achieving , failing loving and hating . All of us at some point of time in our lives must have done something which we regretted later , something which we thought , we wished we could change .That may be anything from a small copying during a test to stealing something that the owner never knew was stolen.At some point of time we may have behaved in an unpleasant manner with our loved ones . We may have spoken a 100 lies to hide a single truth.But then ask yourself does it really matter?all of this is our past which we fortunately or unfortunately cannot change isn't it?regretting just makes no sense..our mistakes,just do not matter but what matters the most is our realization that we have done something wrong which automatically does not allow us to repeat the same...deep inside our soul is aware off all the ill things we commit..we are well aware of the consequences of our ill actions but still something happens to us something so distracting and destructive that it strongly awakens the devil within us and ceases the angel residing in our minds..but the angel does not cease forever.Every person does become a devil at some point in his life but the point is we as human beings posses something called VIVEK,,that's the ability to realize,to recognize ourselves ,that gives us the capability to swallow all the bad karma's , to accept the fact that we have done something wrong , and give us the strength to learn from it , face it rather than being guilty..we should never be guilty because its our body and not our soul which does the wrong things,,we should be clean from within we should posses a pure soul..its a human tendency to fall prey to ill things , things which lead us to the wrong path but at the same time we as humans posses the maturity to make things a learning experience rather than devastating us...that's what separates us from the rest of the species below us.We as we all know are the top of the creation so come lets take an oath to make the VIVEK within us so strong that even the creator feels proud at HIS creation....

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EXPAND YOUR STRENGTH

All of us start our day by waking up in the morning,we get ready,go to our workplaces,return in the evening,complete the routine chores and go off to sleep.DAY COMPLETE...But our actual strength,our tolerance is witnessed the way we spend our day.Most of us feel that we lead a monotonous life,we feel that we are not able to enjoy our lives to the fullest,,but why do we feel so???why do we get fed up so early?why do we give up so soon?and even if we continue why do we work so hopelessly?YES THIS IS THE TRUTH..ask yourself and you will realize.Life is what we want it to be.IF WE WANT TO BE HAPPY WE WILL STAY HAPPY COME WHAT MAY,but if we have decided to remain sad life cannot be fresh and beautiful it has to be dry.Most of the times we do not get what we want,what we wish ,what we deserve,what we DESIRE,,But then regretting makes no sense.Its completely insane to cry for the things we are not able to get,things we are unable to achieve.Yes i know we are humans and we will express our emotions but at the same time we also have to accept the laws of the nature,agree to them cos willingly or unwillingly we have to live with them.So why live unhappily?why shed those unnecessary tears?why are we ourselves responsible for our sadness??why have we ourselves become the culprits of our unhappiness??Everyone has problems,everyone gets downfalls but our problems will continue to be our problems if WE ALLOW them to be so..we ourselves weaken us and let the problems take a toll on our lives.We lack the power to control the situations and circumstances to such an extent that they have started ruling us and what we do is simply REACT,,We have limited ourselves in everything.We say i cannot do it,i cannot take it any more but we do not realize that i will be able to do it if and only if i want to do it,,we have started assuming things,estimating things and most of the times we assume the negative.We have problems with the management,with the government with the administration and what not?and very soon we start having problems with ourselves,,we find government corrupt,,i do not say that they are the most honest people but just imagine yourself at their place and you will realize what they go through..we find the authorities to be unjust but are they actually unjust or we have portrayed them to be so??We feel we have lack of freedom but we are unable to realize that freedom lies in our MINDS..why are we filled with all this??its all because we do not have the patience for things to occur,the belief,the faith,the STRENGTH...we will come out of all this mess if and only if we believe in strengthening ourselves,if we posses the courage to face things,and moreover the inner will to conquer things,,always remember that the thing always happens that you really believe in and that belief in the thing makes that happen.Analyze yourself,understand yourself,purify yourself,explore yourself and your problems will no longer remain your problems.Life is very beautiful,it always was and it always will be we just need to expand our vision,our belief,OUR STRENGTH....