THE SCARCITY OF GENEROSITY

In today's era all of us do get angry over one another , the problem may be either a trivial issue or a major one but what happens is that we lose our temper . We become angry and tend to , land up in much difficult issues , have we ever wondered what would have happened if we kept calm and adjusted ourselves according to the situations? the answer to this is that the problem would have been easily solved and we wasted our valuable time . But during such situations our ego comes in our way and we lose everything . I used to always be very short tempered and had landed up in very large problems because i used to believe that when i have done nothing wrong why should i adjust? why do i need to sacrifice always ? why should not i backanswer those people who talk shit about me ? if they are wrong why do i suffer?
This frame of my mind was obviously incorrect....now you would wonder why am i saying this as the one who is wrong should be punished , same used to be my state of mind.......but i was very fortunate to meet one of my friends who changed my attitude towards such situations , people completely. He made me realize that the bad will hardly become good but the good can definitely become great and if we think about such people we can never be great . No matter how pathetic and irritating is the situation you should always be helpful , kind , and generous.You should never posses the feeling of hatred or revenge for anyone if you do so things will only change from bad to worse
The world has witnessed that true people donot need any recognition , as it is said action speaks louder than words your actions should be just and the people will themselves know about yourself.You should posses the control over yourself , its your life and you have to decide your priorities and remain as you are with everyone , if we do so we can definitely tackle all our problems and make a mark on everyone

TRUST YOUR DEDICATION

We are a part of this competitive world. We live in a place where the impossible is greadually bein possible, where people dream high, live elegantly, and achieve great heights. All of us desire to like the ambanis, malyas, or set our own benchmark for success.We wish to be the most successful people, but achieving all this is not so easy,we are constantly subjected to various difficulties on our path towards progress. We are been tested for ourn skills,our talents,our intelligence. But all these tests are conducted by our seniors which include our teachers, parents, elder etc.But the most important test is carried out by the one who is SENIOR TO EVERYONE, GOD. The test that he conducts upon us is the test of our mental strength,our patience and most importantly our belief in ourselves. Many a times it so happens we believe that we have given our 200% but things donot turn out the way we had planned (i suppose this has happened with everyone) we are not able to come to know what went wrong during such situations, actually what had went wrong was our disbelief in ourselves. We are worried after facing small challenges, we lose our faith and become hopeless. We always keep on limiting our challenges but what HE does is challenging our limits. To succeed we must have tremendous perseverance, tremendous will "i will drink the ocean" says the persevering soul" at my will mountains will crumble up" have that sort of energy that sort of will,work hard. We should always give our best shot and have faith in our efforts and sincerity, then things will always work out if still there is something we should just be calm and wait for the consequences may be there is something better in our kitty, never say no naever say i cannot for you are infinite even time space are nothing compared to my nature.. such should be our attitude, We should always be willing to bear a temporary pain for permanent happiness.... if we are honest in our deeds and believe in them even if things seem to be impossible they may become possible because miracles do occur, but one thing is for sure we should believe in miracles but not depend on them.... so if we posses the necessary grit and trust happiness will definitely come along our way...