EXPECTATIONS HURT

We all have various experiences in our lives.We are subjected through downfalls,rises,happy moments,sad agonies....life has what not to present us??????we go through different stages in our life and each stage has something to teach us..each experience has a lesson which is to be learned by us..but one thing which should be taken care of in every stage of life is that we should not expect anything,,,we start our lives as a chromosome and even before developing people start expecting from us,there are discussions going on for our gender,our complexion,and what not,,obviously when the child is born all those expectations are not fulfilled..basically i want to say that the very beginning of our life is with expectations and when these expectations are not fulfilled people start blaming various factors which according to me is COMPLETELY NUISANCE,,
Now lets get into childhood,as an infant people expect what not from that little infant,,people start asking the parents "why is'nt ur child walking still",some say"he did'nt start talking yet"i mean what the hell is this?he is a little infant,,ok showing concern is good but everything has a limit..
now as the child grows the people want him to top..whatever he studies they want him to excel in that,,i am not saying that one should not study,yes education is essential and should be given prime importance but many a times a lot of potentialities of the child in various other aspects are completely neglected..
This was all about others expectations which can shatter ones dreams but the the most amazing fact is that those expectations that shatter you the most are of your own,,,,,,,,once we are in aposition to take our own desicions we expect a lot from ourselves and our near and dear one's....we want everything the way we would like it to be,,,,,,,but the ONE ABOVE has a completely different plan for us,always when we donot get what we want we become angry or we lose our hope,,and either of them is enough for our failure.We also start expecting from our friends and parents and when they do not give us what we want(ACTUALLY DEMAND)we feel that they do not love us anymore but all of us should realize that they can never be unfair with us they are OUR OWN PEOPLE at times there are certain circumstances and at times the opinions do vary so we should respect their opinions cos they are the people who were there with us when we needed them the most and will alwys be..i would like to conclude by saying
CONCENTRATE ON YOUR KARMA(DEEDS)AND NOT ON THE FRUITS OF YOUR KARMA

A THANKSGIVING TO THE ALMIGHTY

Have we ever wondered what all do we posses??Have we ever thought of our lives without all our possesions??We as teen agers are highly dependent on loads of people and love to be pampered......We have(especially me)wonderful parents(HATS OFF TO THEIR EFFORTS FOR THE SAKE OF OUR COMFORTS)we cannot survive without our belongins which include ipods,cell phones,laptop and many others,we have the privelige of hanging around with a horde of STUPID friends who keep entertaining us with their stupidity,we get the oppurtunity of going to the topmost schools and institutes,we are taught by learned personalities.
This was all about our material possesions,friends,and family,but now just look at yourself we all are blessed with 2 eyes,2 ears, 1 nose, a tongue........a healthy heart and a good looking face...,yes it may sound a bit funny to you right now but just give it a thought and think deeply you will come to know that we are actually blessed.......just keep yourself at the place of a blind person on any other physically or mentally handicapped person you will realize how tough it is for you to survive.We throw tantrums if we donot get branded shoes but we do not realize that people do exist who donot even have feet.....
Always when difficulties come in our way,when we are supposed to face some problems,when destiny plays with us, when we donot get what we think we deserve,we blame GOD,we think its the end but actually its not the end its just a bend......GOD can never be unfair with us infact he has already blessed us with a number of things which we donot deserve..whatever happens in our lives is because HE wants that to occur in our lives and believe it or not "AAL IZZ WELL"
So why not play our role honestly and wait for the things to unfold,,may be there is a hidden surprise for us,,,may be which currently seems to be a sorrow turns out to be the biggest joy in our lives...........
SO FROM TODAY LETS LETS STOP COMPLAINTING AND TAHANK GOD FOR WHATEVER HE HAS GIVEN US........................THANK YOU GOD