JUST DO IT

Our mind is a bundle of thoughts... Our thinking speed is faster then the speed of  light... Our imagination can take us to our own world of wonders... Our dreams have no limitations, no boundaries, and no restrictions! We are what we think of us to be but why can't we become what we want of us to be??... Everyday we have a wish list, every passing moment creates an impression on us, every word listened inculcates a new learning in us and every thrill ever thought by us creates the urge to overcome the fear in us...if and only if we let ourselves break free will we be able to make our wishes comes true, to transform learning into implementation, to experience the thrill we always wanted to...but we cease to allow ourselves to be free, we curl ourselves when we wish to dance, we mute ourselves when we wish to say it loud, we restrict, thinking of  it as crazy and our actions are bound for the sake of the norms in the society! We fear to do the wrong, we fear to bear the pain, we fear to lose it all...but in the end we do not gain what we could have gained...!! May be allowing our wish come true or gaining an experience with a pleasure true... we end up prohibiting our minds to discover this world new! We as humans are imperfect yet unlimited beings...and getting where we want to is never impossible...all we need to do is take the first step towards getting whatever we wish to keeping aside everything that distracts or drives us away from reaching to it! We need to posses the guts to try what the world thinks as insane just because in same way or the other it does make sense to us!!To realize how essential it is to get into the struggle of pain and oppositions for trying it rather than getting into the struggle of regret for not trying it. We need to stay optimistic yet courageous to face everything that comes in our way and convert every little occurrence into a lesson considering everything around us to be positive and working for our own benefit and growth... The strong belief that it is achievable because we think we can...because we have it in us, all it takes to get that wish, desire, ambition or whatever we like to name it...because all it takes is one firm and determined will to JUST DO IT!

EMOTIONS

               Once upon a time,long long ago,it all started with.......all these beginnings may be very commonly used by all of us to describe something,to narrate something,to cherish a memory!But all these memories aren't really planned.Hardly do we remember how something which is now so close and dear to us,is an integral part of our lives..actually entered our lives!We have friends,buddies,some people who are connected in a very strange strong bond..but we actually must have never thought initially that these people who were once strangers will become so close to us,mean so much to us..bring in such a pleasure by just being around and make this world such a beautiful place..but the time does not stay same...its the most tricky thing which keeps playing with us,testing us...we fight,we quarrel,we dispute,we disagree,we get upset,we get hurt...and situations turn the other way round,after all change is the only constant thing!All of this gives birth to emotions like irritation,stress,anxiety..which are very natural..being humans we are bound to have them,feel them..but what we need to think upon is that these emotions arise due to our short term WANTS!We want things to be in our favor,we want circumstances to be smooth and easy..and even if these short term wants are fulfilled we as humans want more and more thereby developing another emotion called "GREED",ultimately we complicate ourselves further and end up staying unsatisfied always.....
            So whats the solution to our problems?emotions can't be controlled..we cannot cease to feel...yes emotions cannot be controlled but they can definitely be channelized in the correct direction..We live in a dual world;where we have black but there exists white as well,we have night but the sun rises as well..light is actually the absence of darkness so without darkness  importance of light cannot be realized.The positive always wins over the negative..if we tend to develop negative emotions like anger and hatred the only way out to get rid of these negatives is by replacing them with a single positive emotion called "LOVE"..love has the power to melt the hardest rock,to bear fruits out of the most unyielding field...love is something which we do not want but we badly "NEED"!all of us are hungry for love and are looking for only love...love is boundless,condition-less,timeless...to love and to be loved is the strongest emotion of all that can out-power all other negatives...
              Love your life,love your job,love yourself,love the people around you,love the people with you...live in the present moment and love the present moment because you are about to lose this moment soon....

SMILE :) :)

    Smile , this may seem to be one particular action almost every normal person performs....in the whole day we smile....we smile when we meet people we know...when we get what we want,when we forgive , when we thank . But how many times does this smile actually reaches our eyes ?? how many times do we actually portray an effortless smiling face!!!All of us have suffered and are suffering through our share of downfalls...pains ,pressures and many a times disappointments .We are humans , we feel.....we feel sad , we feel bad , dejected and all of it is quiet natural...Every coin has two sides so if we can feel happy we are bound to feel sad as well . No matter how far we go..we aim to achieve even greater , we develop an unsatisfactory attitude which in the current competitive scenario is quiet justified!!we have good relations , some very special people , best of friends...people who just strike the right chord , people who make it easy for us to deal with the pains and pressures of our life..people who love us , care for us , value us and are valued by us..but at the same time we also come across certain people who may have given us some really bad memories , people who may left scars behind . Life is full of surprises!!some of which may be truly mesmerizing while the rest may not be so pleasant and cherishable...all these occurances take  place in a continuous flow ...emotions keep coming...people enter , people leave !! some give us peasant memories other leave us with some very sensible lessons ...we fall , we cripple but then finally we gather the courage to run...to turn our dreams into reality ... our achievements may or may not turn to be as expected but at the end of the day we do attain a certain level of stability and symbolize growth...situations may not be in our favor , people may not be in our support but ultimately we evolve ...and to evolve it requires great strength....this strength comes from one simple action SMILE :) :) :) Avery simple , genuine smile ....a smile which thanks , a smile which forgives , a smile which is grateful , a smile that indicates strength and is at the same time a symbol of tenderheartedness.......a smile that comes from within..A SMILE THAT REACHES OUR EYES !!:):)

THE ULTIMATE STRENGTH

All of us have certain dreams , certain aspirations , certain wishes and definitely certain demands...we work hard to achieve all that we desire , to enjoy what we crave for...to dream is good and working hard towards its realization is what should be our purpose ! But to chase our dreams so badly , to get indulged into something , to go after something to an extent that we become unable to observe where our mind is leading our soul to is "BAD"
There is an ANGEL and a DEVIL residing within all of us..both the angel and devil wants our dream to be realized , both of them ceaselessly want us to work towards it turning into reality but the path chosen by them is different !!as an instance both the terrorist and a laborer may wish to see his family happy , both may want to look after the adequacy of their meager needs but the way they choose to fulfill these needs is completely different..we may not touch the extremes and end up being the terrorist in our lives but even our little dishonest actions may lead to the awakening of devil in us !! This devil is responsible for an unhealthy , unstable and restless state of our minds....this state of mind is subject to stress , frustration and despair..full of negativity and hopelessness...this state of mind weakens us , shakes us , pulls us down !! The ever increasing impatience , anxiety and hyper activeness prevalent in today's era may compel us to take incorrect decisions..the circumstances may constantly act as a catalyst to awaken the devil in us , time may make us helpless and provoke the devil to come into action , but that's exactly when we are being tested..that's when we come to know how much of strength do we posses!!An honest soul has a reservoir of positivity in him..He is free of impure and insane thoughts...he has the faith that no matter how hard life gets for him , he will be able to face it , his efforts won't go vain and his struggle will transform him into a better , improved , evolved , polished person !This faith and optimism is his ULTIMATE STRENGTH !! strength which makes him withstand all the calamities , strength to survive through all the hardships , strength to face tremendous amount of pain courageously , strength to fight with the evil fearlessly , strength that helps him choose the right path , strength that allows him to realize his dreams , STRENGTH THAT KEEPS THE ANGEL ALIVE !!!

ETERNAL HAPPINESS

We live a life full of aspirations..we have enormous number of dreams..we crave , we need , we desire , we demand...Finally we end up getting things which we deserve , things which were destined which were meant to be ours eventually stay ours and things which were not , do not come our way..During this phase what we greedy and highly unsatisfied creatures do is simply mourn for things that didn't turn the way we wished them to...We suddenly become so insecure , so ignorant and so immature that we do not remain in a state to accept the fact , the reality that somethings cannot be ours!!At that moment we feel , we behave like a defeated warrior ..negativity starts buzzing in our minds!!We feel dejected , under estimated due to the fact that we had somehow consciously or unconsciously defined our frame of happiness and the reality that we could not achieve the same saddens us badly...all this turns out to be so complicated that we experience a feeling of being lost amidst the chaos...the fast pace of occurrence of the events  aggravates our misery...and we ourselves are responsible for this poor condition of ours..its our own attitude , our thinking ,our definition of happiness that determines our quality of living...ill situations , bad circumstances , tough times all these are mere excuses..everyone is supposed to go through his own set of problems and deal with his own set of sufferings...but at the same time everyone is also blessed with the incredible strength to face the circumstances , deal with the situation and solve the problems..this strength not only gives us the zeal to keep trying but also helps us accept the fact that certain things may not turn out to be the way we want them to..certain things are out of our reach and control..one of the greatest source of this strength is the people we live with..the people who complete us..the people who make us special.OUR FRIENDS , FAMILY , OUR WELL WISHERS , THE VERY FEW NEAR AND DEAR ONE'S..THE ANGELS , THE SAVIORS OF OUR LIFE...take a pause!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!halt..............look around you and see how beautiful your life is due to the presence of these angels..how much difference does their mere existence makes to us..how a simple word of encouragement , a small love you text from them elevates our mood..how good we feel when they call us their own..and now analyze what is worth mourning for the things , the sadness that was never ours or embracing the happiness which was always yours and which will stay ours...:):):)

MISUNDERSTANDINGS WILL EXIST

In our whole lifetime we go through a number of stages..we fall into a number of relationships either willingly or unwillingly..some of which may turn to be very fruitful and fun filled while the rest may simply prove to be a source of unwanted despair!!But what matters is not which relationship brings happiness or what makes us sad..the bottom line,the prime requisite in any sort of relationships is TRUST!!trust is all that's essential for any kind of relationship to be successful.It provides strength and gives a definition,a new dimension to the relationship..and this 5 letter word is not so easy to develop..it requires honesty and a feeling of complete dependency on the other person involved..If trust is the base of any relationship then it is bound to withstand all the adversities..no matter how much the people differ in their thoughts,opinions,values and even societies..every relationship is subject to a number of tests and each individual has a life full of twists and turns..time is never the same..things keep changing and so does our thinking!!there are circumstances wherein we develop a feeling of hatred,a feeling of being neglected and anger and dejection are strong feelings which cannot be ignored...we love and want to be loved but things always don't be in our favor...we all have a tendency of expecting,introspecting which are persistent!! our mind is best at playing traits...it may think devastatingly..but at the same time we also posses a level of maturity a sense of discrimination which generates co operation , mutual understanding and compromising attitude..time will change..misunderstandings will exist but if we do not allow our minds to play the devil and rather believe in positive consequences instead of disregarding then relationships will be better than they were before and definitely will be everlasting...

What differentiates you is "YOU"

We live in an era where the society seems to play a very impact able role in our lives,where before taking any decision , before performing any task we are bound to take the reaction and opinion of the society into consideration!!hardly are we able to live our lives our own ways...we have all lost our control over ourselves simply because we have given others the authority to rule our minds!!we have become so carried away and so reactive that our own thoughts have disappeared somewhere , our own identities have become camouflaged...the voices of others have become so loud that we are in no position to listen to our hearts... all this has become so intense that we have ended up being one amongst the crowd!!influenced,weak and carried away....but is this what we want!!is this what we are meant to be??is dis our purpose??what gives us our identity  then?what gives our personality an edge over others??its the ability to raise our own opinions , channelize our own thoughts , follow our own dreams that helps us stand out from the crowd...we are what we want us to be..the considerations of ''the society'' should not be given so much importance that our hearts and minds take a back seat..when we do what we really wish to do , when we strive to fulfill , to achieve our desires , when we follow what our heart says only then we are ourselves..in the rest of the cases someone else seems to fit in our place..what makes us different is the strong will to create our own standards , the firmness in our own principles , the discipline in our own rules and the determination in our own possibilities.......                                                                                                                                                
What differentiates you is "YOU"