Many a times we people come across situations and need to face circumstances which are unpleasant,irritating,annoying and disturbing.There are people around us with whom we do not gel properly,whose views and opinions do not match with that of ours and we just feel like getting out of the mess.But getting away from the mess is practically impossible.In such situations we feel damn confused and worried.We start blaming certain factors,give lame reasons for not liking things and end up being completely bored,grumpy,and UPSET.But this IS LIFE.Life is not a fairytale,it is full of hurdles,it teaches us something in every stage of our difficulty.Every problem has its solution and there is a lesson hidden in the process of finding the solution to the problem,and a bundle of all these lessons is known as experience.One must always remember that whatever is gonna happen is bound to occur,no one can escape from facing difficulties so there is no use of being upset.One must always give an optimistic approach to things and try to learn something from each and every thing.By this i do not mean that one should change instead he should increase his tolerance,his patience and above all his belief in himself,,,,yes always the things do not turn out the way you plan but being upset and tensed on the reality makes no sense..cos if a person is deserving his work is recognized even if the rest of the world is not in his favour and that's because of his determination and ceaseless efforts,,so we should all posses the capabilities to be in the crowd yet stand out through our excellence......