ETERNAL HAPPINESS

We live a life full of aspirations..we have enormous number of dreams..we crave , we need , we desire , we demand...Finally we end up getting things which we deserve , things which were destined which were meant to be ours eventually stay ours and things which were not , do not come our way..During this phase what we greedy and highly unsatisfied creatures do is simply mourn for things that didn't turn the way we wished them to...We suddenly become so insecure , so ignorant and so immature that we do not remain in a state to accept the fact , the reality that somethings cannot be ours!!At that moment we feel , we behave like a defeated warrior ..negativity starts buzzing in our minds!!We feel dejected , under estimated due to the fact that we had somehow consciously or unconsciously defined our frame of happiness and the reality that we could not achieve the same saddens us badly...all this turns out to be so complicated that we experience a feeling of being lost amidst the chaos...the fast pace of occurrence of the events  aggravates our misery...and we ourselves are responsible for this poor condition of ours..its our own attitude , our thinking ,our definition of happiness that determines our quality of living...ill situations , bad circumstances , tough times all these are mere excuses..everyone is supposed to go through his own set of problems and deal with his own set of sufferings...but at the same time everyone is also blessed with the incredible strength to face the circumstances , deal with the situation and solve the problems..this strength not only gives us the zeal to keep trying but also helps us accept the fact that certain things may not turn out to be the way we want them to..certain things are out of our reach and control..one of the greatest source of this strength is the people we live with..the people who complete us..the people who make us special.OUR FRIENDS , FAMILY , OUR WELL WISHERS , THE VERY FEW NEAR AND DEAR ONE'S..THE ANGELS , THE SAVIORS OF OUR LIFE...take a pause!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!halt..............look around you and see how beautiful your life is due to the presence of these angels..how much difference does their mere existence makes to us..how a simple word of encouragement , a small love you text from them elevates our mood..how good we feel when they call us their own..and now analyze what is worth mourning for the things , the sadness that was never ours or embracing the happiness which was always yours and which will stay ours...:):):)