TOLERANCE.........The quality we lack!!

All of us must have gone through 1 situation in our lives that we feel we just cant handle , a situation which makes us question our existence , a situation wherein we feel depressed , dejected , LOST...at such times everything seems dry , colorless..every positive thought , every joyous moment seems to be vanished...WE WISH WE WERE NOT ALIVE...but bang on!!!how can we think that??how can we keep our minds preoccupied with negativity and let struggles take a toll on our lives??are we so weak!!!During those situations we become so hopeless that we actually consider ourselves to be weak............ but MIND WELL.. NO ONE IS WEAK...EVERY ONE IS STRONG EVERYONE IS BRAVE....the only thing that makes us weak is our lack of tolerance..Tough situations are a part of our lives..every day we are gifted with a new set of troubles..a new struggle commences everyday so if we keep reacting instead of patiently tolerating we will ourselves devastate our lives..we are impatient and lack the faith not only upon ourselves but also upon THE ALMIGHTY..this makes us lose everything..THINK just for a sec , just sit quietly go back to the ill situations in your life and replace intolerance with tolerance , anger with patience , hopelessness with hope and imagine what would have been the consequences then..i bet they must be much clear , better , then what actually occurred..We cry , we hate , we curse , we blame!!!but just think why do we cry when we can laugh??why do we hate when we can love??why do we curse when we can bless and be blessed??why??because WE LACK TOLERANCE...the tolerance to face tough times in our lives,the tolerance to bear the ups and downs of our lives,the tolerance to listen to the critics,the tolerance to survive with the laws of the nature,,the tolerance to wait for improvement to take place and most importantly the tolerance , the patience , the ability to digest the fact that "SWEET IS THY WILL" HE THE ALMIGHTY can never harm us , weaken us..His grace will always strengthen us..But we are ignorant and lack faith upon HIS GRACE..HE has gifted us with this life and its our prime responsibility to face the challenges of our life with full courage and dignity..NOTHING is in our hands , HE is the creator , the generator , the destroyer ,, so we have to accept everything as we are left with no other option...whatever we perceive , whatever we believe are temporary and out of our control , we are all controlled , directed and guided by HIM..so come lets forget all our sorrows , lets leave all our grievances behind , lets forgive ,lets accept ,LETS TOLERATE...