Saturday, April 10, 2010

THE SCARCITY OF GENEROSITY

In today's era all of us do get angry over one another , the problem may be either a trivial issue or a major one but what happens is that we lose our temper . We become angry and tend to , land up in much difficult issues , have we ever wondered what would have happened if we kept calm and adjusted ourselves according to the situations? the answer to this is that the problem would have been easily solved and we wasted our valuable time . But during such situations our ego comes in our way and we lose everything . I used to always be very short tempered and had landed up in very large problems because i used to believe that when i have done nothing wrong why should i adjust? why do i need to sacrifice always ? why should not i backanswer those people who talk shit about me ? if they are wrong why do i suffer?
This frame of my mind was obviously incorrect....now you would wonder why am i saying this as the one who is wrong should be punished , same used to be my state of mind.......but i was very fortunate to meet one of my friends who changed my attitude towards such situations , people completely. He made me realize that the bad will hardly become good but the good can definitely become great and if we think about such people we can never be great . No matter how pathetic and irritating is the situation you should always be helpful , kind , and generous.You should never posses the feeling of hatred or revenge for anyone if you do so things will only change from bad to worse
The world has witnessed that true people donot need any recognition , as it is said action speaks louder than words your actions should be just and the people will themselves know about yourself.You should posses the control over yourself , its your life and you have to decide your priorities and remain as you are with everyone , if we do so we can definitely tackle all our problems and make a mark on everyone

1 comment:

Unknown said...

hmm...u r rite...ego is the main problem..by da way wats the name of ur friend who made u realize...

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